Time has allowed me adjustment to change my mentality and increase the viability of my relationships. It does take two, but it begins with one…

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Every relationship has an ever-changing balance scale that is significantly dependent on the now events, location, and personal commitments. I bring this point up because I want to talk about a feeling that I’ve been struggling with for quite some time. An adjustment that I’ve once (even twice) before had to cope with, work through, and find my own strength.

For months I’ve been searching, wanting, pleading for the attention and proximity from a relationship that was once exemplar of just that. This person was my person. You see that the fame and glamorous life of being a twin is just that, but it also comes with so many underlying hardships. The desire, the need to be the same – identical – isn’t solely a societal expectation, but also a very personal and debilitating pressure. Going through these changes and physical losses have been tremendously heartbreaking for me and I’m…

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5 thoughts on “It Takes Two

    1. Yes, it is–perspective is powerful!
      I couldn’t agree with you more. Gaining the understanding and finding comfort in living well–maybe even better–with distance I believe is essential to knowing yourself; and living well 🙂
      thank you so much for sharing your thoughts–your perspective 😉

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